Monday, February 8th, 2010

How can I convince my newborn (2 wks) to sleep?

She wants to eat every 3-4 hours (bottle), and WAS falling asleep shortly afterward, but today had NO interest in sleeping at all, aside from ONE 3 hour nap. She just wants to be held, which I LOVE doing, but I wonder if maybe I’m holding her TOO much. I didn’t think it was possible to hold a newborn too much. Also, when she IS awake, what can I do to play with her at this young age? I don’t want her to get bored with me just holding her all of the time, feeding her, changing her, and telling her how pretty she is. I talk to her all of the time, I was just wondering if there’s something more I should be doing
And I do realize that I can’t really “convince” her to sleep, I was just under the impression that newborns slept a LOT and apparently I’m supposed to sleep when she sleeps, …. (that won’t be happening :O) ) I was just wondering if it was normal for a 2 week old to get “bored” with the sleeping all time routine. I just really want her to be happy and always feel loved.

13 Responses to “How can I convince my newborn (2 wks) to sleep?”

Lana Says:

no hunny you are doing fine trust me she want get bored of you. your the one thing she wakes up wanting. the reason why she is prolly not sleeping is becuz she is getting older and wanting to see more and the day is not long enough for her, and plus that 3 hour nap prolly is going to hold her until she goes back to sleep as long as shes not crying then shes fine and all babies love to be held

Mommy to handsome Noah Says:

Talking to her, singing to her, and giving her massages and touch is all she needs right now. Babies that age like things that are black and white and red. So find things that have alot of contrast in them and just put them in front of her (she won’t do anything but look at them) but they will stimulate her.

YOU CAN”T SPOIL A NEWBORN. hold her as much as you want and cuddle her. She will sleep if she is tired, don’t worry about that too much.

♥Spencer's♥ ♥Mom♥ Says:

sorry dear but you cannot convince anyone of any age to sleep… it just wont happen if they aren’t tired.
she sounds like a perfectly healthy and happy and normal baby girl. keep talking to her, thats so wonderful!

Wendee32 Says:

You are doing just fine. She is satisfied with your voice and face right now. Try getting a swing, and when you need to do something, put her in the swing and have it gently rock. She may drift off to sleep for a bit. Get one with toys attached to it, she will see some color but not a lot and it will help her track things with her eyes. You don’t have to leave her in it all day, but she will be safe for a bit.

Its hard at this age to know what to do with them all day since they don’t respond. If you like to read, just hold her while you read, she won’t understand words but the tone you use will help her figure out inflection and help her speech later on.

Don’t feel like you aren’t doing enough right now because you are. Later on when she is older, then you should worry if she isn’t occupied enough because she will be more aware of everything.

Hope this helps!

Dalton's Mommy Says:

Babies cannot be reasoned with to go to sleep. I uncurled my son’s hand and put different textures up and let him feel them. Bumpy, smooth, silky, coarse etc. You can sing to they don’t care if it’s off key :)

Lindsey Says:

The long and short of it is, the more healthy stimulation she gets during her waking hours, the more likely she will be to sleep. You can do this in many ways, even though she so little. Talking to her is a fantastic way to build your bond with her, you can also sing or recite nursery rhymes. You can dance with her, and show her colorful objects.
As far a holding her too much, that is a controversial issue. On one side they say a baby, espically of this age, needs that attention for development, on the other it’s said that building independence at an warly age can be healthy in a developmental way. It all depends on what you are comfortable with. …Personally, I think that it is good to let your child experience other surroundings than just being held. That’s not saying you should put her in a swing for three hours. Maybe lay out a blanket on the floor and set her down, get down on the floor with her, rub her belly and interact with her, just don’t hold her. This gives her a new experience, not being held, but gives her the reassurance that you are still there.

Hope this helps!

miss sarah - ttc#2 Says:

You’re doing just fine, they don’t bore easy, just looking at your face keeps them preoccupied. Try using a swing that plays music when you want to put her down. At that age they usually eat every 3-4 hours and sleep for 2-3 hours at a time. Running a fan or air cleaner helps them sleep, too.

theycallme_tc Says:

she’s only two weeks old? Good luck boring her lol. Babies are boring at that age. But thats what they do. Eat. Poop. Sleep. Repeat. I didn’t hold my son too much, maybe I should have though lol he hates being held now :) But I would give her a lot of tummy time. Even if she grunts or cries, its good to have a lot of that to help her muscle developement. There’s not much to do with a baby that young. But if it’s nice out, go on walks. Lay on a blanket outside. Let her experience the outdoors and new sights and sounds. In a couple months she’ll be interested in toys and faces and be a lot of fun. Enjoy her quietness :)

Celeste Says:

what i started doing as soon as my NB turned a week old is, i started reading out loud, not baby books, but book i would enjoy, i read her twilight, new moon, eclipse, ect,

because at that age they dont understand anything, but its good for them to hear words, so i would do it for both her and me

and it kept her happy to hear my voice and it kept me entertained

~KGB~ Kaitlyn's mommy Says:

My daughter is a little over 2 weeks and is the same way. We started doing tummy time and she likes it. I also pay music and we dance. I talk to her and read books to her. Today was my first day home with her alone, husband went back to work ;( and my arm hurts from holding her so much but that is ok!

Today my daughter had a few naps. She had an one hour nap, a few cat naps in my arms, then a 3 hour one. I just put her down again so we will she how long she sleeps, hopefully long enough for mommy to take a shower.

Jillian ~*Cohen's mummy*~ Says:

They do sleep a lot, wait til she’s two and you’ll see lol you can’t hold her too much. Can you love or hug someone you love too much if that’s what they like?3-4 hours is normal and a lot of babies eat sooner than that. talking is great! this is what she needs right now. playing will be much easier when she can reach out and grab things or laugh and things like that

Teki Says:

There’s nothing wrong with holding a newborn during most of her awake time. She was carried by you for the 9 mos. before she was born and still needs to be held a lot. This is an important time for you two to bond and your physical contact is an integral part of that. This stage of her life will fly by and soon she’ll be content to sit in an infant seat and play with her feet. Just keep her fed, clean,dry and held and she’ll be a happy, healthy baby. Don’t worry about her becoming bored. In fact, too much stimulus can be very disturbing to newborns.
Babies at this age like to be snugly wrapped in their bankets for sleep.Try to wrap her like the nurses did at the hospital.They sleep better when they’re bundled because it resembles how they were in utero.
Just do what you have been doing but try to enlist some help so you can get some uninterrupted sleep. It’s very important.Good luck and congratulations.

iZay [Daniel's Mommy] Says:

your doing a good job don’t worry, as time passes and she gets older you will find she will be awake longer their routine keeps changing all the time because they are growing.

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